Friday, July 9, 2010
STANDARDS: How low can you go?
To begin, for those that have yet to hear my single "1st Class Chick," listen here: http://bit.ly/bDjLff I need you to examine the song and analyze the meaning. The reason I am asking you to do so is because it will help you understand me a bit more.
Let us define STANDARDS: a rule or principle that is used as a basis for judgment
Standards can originate from your household and/or the way you were brought up.
I noticed that many women have started to lower their standards for "temporary love." I have heard many women say things that have disgusted me ridiculously. I overheard a woman recently say that she knows her significant other is cheating on her but that she does not care as long as it is not in her face. Since when is this acceptable? I know that these statistics that we have all previously read and watched about the low percentage of good men to good women now have individuals frazzled. Some women do not want to be alone. Some women cannot stand on their own. Some women settle.
I can honestly say that this cycle is a cycle that will continuously take its course & it all begins with STANDARDS. When women raise their standards, men will OBLIGE. The fact that a woman knows that a man is married but still tries to seek him is DISGUSTING. The fact that a man tells a woman "You gon be my future baby mama" and she agrees is DISGUSTING. The fact that women allow themselves to be cheated on is DISGUSTING.
A real man doesn't want a pushover. A good man wants a woman he can respect, love, cherish, and that respects herself. Many of my good friends have recently experienced engagement. I noticed that some of the women that are getting married at this point and time are good women. These are women that respect themselves and can stand on their own if they needed to. These are the kind of women that deserve to be wifed. How can GOD bless a woman that is constantly betraying his word? How can GOD bless a woman that doesn't know her worth? How can GOD bless a woman that only comes to him when she wants something? You don't deserve to be blessed. You must ask yourself why GOD made it possible for man and woman to have the opportunity to be one. Why? A good relationship is embedded in Christ... not Jay-Z, Jeezy, 50 cent, and B.E.T. If you're too busy trying to live the life you see on tv, you will not receive God's favor.
Many women look back on their lives and reflect. Many women have children out of wedlock, no husband, no self-worth, no respect, and no sense. People complain everyday but continue to do the same things over and over. What man wants a woman who doesn't respect herself honestly? No man. He may have sex with you and let you produce a child, but all that makes you is a baby mama. Women are worth more than the term "babymamma." Start respecting yourself. Have standards. You know what you deserve.. and if you don't know, maybe you should try to learn who you are before you try to be with someone else.
I am happy to say that:
I don't curse.
I don't exploit myself.
I don't make derogatory statements.
I LOVE GOD more than anything.
I am PURE.
I don't drink.
I don't smoke.
I have no children.
I have self-respect.
I know some people look at me and think "well who does she think she is?" and I know I'm not perfect but I know that GOD is proud of me. I have always been my own person. I never follow the crowd.. I am the one leading. I am such a unique person but I still fit in with people who are not like me. So many people look up to me for what I represent. People like me stand out while others fit in. I love standing out and I would never sacrifice my principles for something that is beneath me. I know what I deserve. Do you?
With every man that is interested in someone like me.. I have to say... I WILL NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS. You must be just like me or someone who makes me better.. but the question is, are you BM status or will you upgrade to wifey?? You make the choice to be miserable and lonely for the rest of your life. What do you choose?
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